Tips for Great Dating Conversations


Do you end up speechless when you’re out on a date? Do you find that you run out of topics to talk about after a long date? If you are one of those people who constantly have to stuff something in their mouth to keep from talking, you need these tips to a great date conversation to help you. Silence is good for reflection and all, but for a date, it absolutely isn’t.

First great tip to a great conversation is to change your hard-to-start-a-conversation attitude. You were able to ask this woman or man out in the first place. Kudos to you! That is one great hurdle you were able to overcome. You should put in mind that starting a conversation is an easier task and one that can be easily accomplished.

In order for you to start a conversation, you need to get to know your date first. Don’t be afraid to ask those same old questions like asking for her interests and all, because this will only guide your flow of conversation.

Once you know your date’s interest, then you just hit the jackpot. Be interested in your date’s interest. Spring questions that pertain to what he or she likes in life. If you have the same likes, let him or her know. If your date knows you have something in common, he or she becomes more comfortable and will be able to talk freely to you. If you don’t have any idea about your date’s interest, likewise, tell them and ask them about it. Your date would be more than pleased to know that you’re willing to learn more about them.

Jokes are also great conversation starters. These both make you and your date laugh and laughter does a great job of easing tension. Be sure that your joke is funny though in order to elicit the right kind of reaction from your date. If you don’t have a funny bone in you, you can always carry around that handy joke book to aid you in your time of need.

Being unique in your choice of conversation is also a good topic starter. Your date will, more often than not, be surprised if you use unique conversation starters and will be hooked in knowing more.

Whatever the choice of topic for a conversation, it all starts with the right attitude. Conquer the attitude you used to have about dating conversations and you will be good to go. Just one precaution however, you have to be alert whether your date likes the topic you’re discussing. If not, veer away from the topic and introduce another one that your date would like.

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